Monday, March 6, 2017

Washington's Weasel Word...

'Weasel word'. It's a real thing and it describes most of what's coming out of Washington today to a 'T'. (Pun completely intended...)

Here's what Wikipedia has to say:

"A weasel word, or anonymous authority, is an informal term for words and phrases aimed at creating an impression that a specific or meaningful statement has been made, when instead only a vague or ambiguous claim has actually been communicated. This can enable the speaker to later deny the specific meaning if the statement is challenged. Where this is the intention, use of weasel words is a form of tergiversation.

Weasel words can be used in advertising and in political statements, where it can be advantageous to cause the audience to develop a misleading impression.

Some weasel words have the effect of softening the force of a potentially loaded or otherwise controversial statement through some form of understatement; for example, using detensifiers such as "somewhat" or "in most respects"."

Sound familiar? I don't know about you but, knowing that, I feel a little stupid for being so gullible...

Looking back over some of my older blogs and posts, I found this one from 2009. Geez, I was griping about the media circus before it got this bad! I went into the history of yellow journalism, how it got started and the man who created it, here: The Yellowed Pulitzer. Believe it or not, there is word for one of today's biggest form

Tuesday, February 28, 2017

Hidden Figures - Hidden Future...?

This morning, as Trump announced cuts in education and science budgets to radically increase military spending, Bugsy and I watched Hidden Figures. One of the many perks of the homeschooled life, I watched her react to seeing a period of American history and scientific achievement that I lived through at about her same age. I cried during several parts of the movie, she pointed her pinkie at the screen (our 'allowed' middle-finger replacement) many more times, angered by the segregation and bigotry that had so deeply shamed me as a child. We cheered those three amazing woman for their courage and determination.

We paused the movie a few times to talk about what it was like back then - a time of shining stars and darkest shadows. About being a southern white child raised in a white household by a black woman whom I loved enough to call "Ma" but who would never eat at our table or have her own room. About her sitting in the car, waiting for us to bring her a meal from a "Whites Only" restaurant when we travelled. I told her about my first bus ride, when she took my little brother and I downtown to see President Kennedy's last parade, and about wanting to sit in the front but couldn't.

"Niggers in the back," the bus driver growled.

I'd never heard that word but I could read the sign that said "Colored Section".

"Ma," I whispered, tugging at her hand, "the bus looks the same back here. Why does it say this part is colored?"I told Bugsy about a time when astronauts were America's Super Heroes and every little boy wanted to be one when he grew up. Little girls like me could only dream of marrying one...

When the film revealed that the first NASA computers could make 24,000 calculations a second, we Googled the difference between their computing power and her iPhone 6, discovering that the little thing she held in her hand was 32,600 times more powerful than the ones that sent John Glenn into orbit.

The movie ending, I asked her what parallels she saw between now and then, fully expecting her to say that things were better for women or we'd become better people or that our scientific advances were incredible.

"Mom, I can only see Trump bringing chaos and war and hate."

This ending made me cry shameful tears, too.

Wednesday, February 22, 2017

We're All In That Boat...

Ok, here's the deal folks...
America is a unique place. 98% of our population are basically immigrants. I'm an immigrant, you're an immigrant, Trump is an immigrant.

"What?!?", you might be thinking (or shouting...)

That fact is undisputed. The only people in this country who did not board a ship to get here are Native Americans. Yes, you are, I am, we are, immigrants.

I looked at my recent DNA test and realized that every single ethnicity in my blood has been hated by people in this country at one time or another. And so have yours! Your 'greats' were spit on, marginalized, brutalized, belittled, traumatized and maybe even killed for wanting nothing more than the better life that America promised.

Think about it. Then share it if you get my drift...

Wednesday, February 8, 2017

The Yellowed Truth



Back in 1971, I wrote and sent my very first article to our local paper. The editor replied with an acceptance letter commending me on my story and asking if I could drop by his office at my 'earliest convenient opportunity' to discuss a possible part-time job and to pick up my check. I got the check but I did not get the job because, at the time, I was only twelve...
In my lifetime, I've written for newspapers and magazines, documented crime scenes as a freelance photographer, DJ'd at radio stations and performed varied and asundry television jobs - sometimes juggling two or three of these things at the same time because I was a single mom - but my underlying function, no matter what form it took, was relaying honest information in a straightforward manner.
Before the who, what, when, where and why of any story was delivered, facts were checked, rechecked and checked again. With the exception of my radio shows, adding my own personal opinions would most probably have gotten me fired on the spot. I never slanted an interview or revealed salacious details to simply garner my own PR. The generation of people doing what I did followed in the footsteps of Edward R. Murrow, Walter Cronkite and Dan Rather. My grandmother was fond of saying: "In God and Walter we trust!" Integrity mattered far more than ratings or circulation.
That first published piece of mine, back in 1971, optimistically described the wondrous changes my grandfather had seen in his lifetime. Now, were I to pen a first-person narrative, honesty would bind me to add that while I've seen many technological advancements, sadly, our society has its share of regressions, not the least of which is in journalism. Because I had the good fortune to work with CBS Evening News anchor Scott Pelley at WFAA in Dallas when he was just starting to make a name for himself, I know the kind of standards he adheres to, so thankfully there remains one news person I still feel I can trust. I'm also a fan of Vice News, believe it or not, because they cover things happening in the world at large with a no-frills, down to earth style that's refreshing.
Before the advent of bubble-headed bleached blondes, talking heads and the internet, we would have scathingly derided much of today's media content as 'yellow journalism'. Today, of course, we call it 'Fake News'. Beyond maddening to anyone trying to ascertain fact from fiction, this kind of irresponsible reporting has a long history of creating irreparable harm. It pushed us into deadly conflicts as a country and quite literally pushed people over the edge. It is a vicious tool wielded by both political parties and those thoughtlessly seeking self promotion and fame. For the life of me, I cannot understand why we've stood for it - especially now that it is exposed for the world to see - and our reputation as a nation is circling the swamp drain.
Recently, speaking with a group of young people, I was asked what was the meanest thing anyone had ever done to me. I like talking to kids because I'm older and have wisdom I'll gleefully impart at any opportunity. Anyway, the event that came to mind was one I still remember vividly because it was my first encounter with fake news and it was written about me.
About fifteen years ago, I attended a small company party for a now defunct alternative weekly paper here in Las Vegas. It was one of those little free papers you find outside convenience stores and neighborhood strip malls, written mostly by younger writers looking to move up to something bigger. My son was one of those young writers at the time and he invited me to go along, primarily because he needed a ride, and, knowing that a reporter I'd long admired and respected might be there, offered to introduce us. So, albeit reluctantly, I accepted. Frat parties and their equivalent are not my thing.
The party was held in something of a dive bar near the paper's office. A non-drinker, knowing absolutely no one there, I was really feeling like a fish out of water and already secretly regretting my decision to attend. I ordered a coke from the bartender, listening as my son talked to a group of his fellow writers behind me. When he walked away, one of the older guys in the group started ragging about how unfair he thought it was that someone as young as my son should have so much talent. On and on he ragged. Finally, motherly defenses riled, I turned to gaze pointedly at the speaker. When he noticed me, he bristled.
"What do you want?"
"Pardon me," I replied innocently. "I was just listening to what you were saying about my son."
With that, I turned back to my soda, gracious enough not to watch him wipe the egg off his face. The reporter I'd wanted to talk to never showed and we left not long after.
In the next edition of the paper that man wrote harshly in his column about my son and crudely characterized me as a ''barfly" seeking an opportunity to seduce the reporter I'd been hoping to meet. To say I was mortified would vastly understate my reaction. No doubt long since forgotten by the perpetrator, his thoughtless, mean-spirited act to assuage a bruised ego is a perfect example of the lack of integrity in today's media and the lengths to which some will stoop to further an agenda.
Were I to write that "fake news is perpetuated by no less than the Liar in Chief himself", this would qualify as an 'op-ed' statement, conveying fact with personal opinion. Editorials have been with us as long as the published page. The problem is, there seems currently to be way too much op-ed masquerading as news. It confuses, obfuscates and confounds anyone looking for, as Dragnet's Joe Friday used to say: "Just the facts, ma'am". That's not to devalue editorial comment. My son, Joshua Ellis, has a large and loyal following on his Facebook page, primarily due to topical editorials he writes almost daily. Bombastic, sometimes profane, written with all of George Carlin's Seven Little Words (and then some - much to my chagrin) they are, as so often commented, incredibly thought provoking. He makes people think. If there's anything this country needs more of right now, I don't know what it is. What he doesn't do is make up fake massacres to spread intolerance or skewed statistics to strengthen his case or belittle someone to make himself feel like a man. I'm intensely proud.
I don't know know where we go from here, how we raise the bar back up high enough to have truly trustworthy information in this Information Age. Certainly not as long as we have an administration that has elevated lying to an art form and we continue to stand back drooling in rapt admiration.
I don't write much these days because frankly, my genteel southern sensibility just doesn't give a damn anymore. I can't find anything remotely resembling the industry I devoted so much of my life to. The technical skill set I polished for so many years has been replaced by spell checkers and cut-n-paste regurgitation in a world that ignores integrity, values quantity over quality, sensationalism over sensibility, scoffs at fact checking, offers a penny a word in payment and then happily settles for getting exactly what they paid for. That's a shame. My stories are priceless...

Thursday, January 2, 2014

First, Do No Harm

I can remember my first visit to the doctor more clearly than what I had for breakfast this morning...

Near Mockingbird Lane in Dallas, Our family's pediatrician for three generations, Dr. Robert Young, had a cozy office in a converted brick residence, shaded by giant oaks . An intricate, heavily detailed storybook map covered one whole wall of his waiting room, entranced and captured my imagination. How many hundreds of tiny fingers like mine traced through trails through its forests and along the ocean shorelines?  His bespeckled eyes were full of warmth and kindness. Tapping the exam table with a "let's hop up here, kiddo, and see what we've got", his short sleeved lab coat pockets produced wooden tongue depressors and lollipops with cotton loops instead of sticks. He'd check eyes, nose, ears; feel lymph nodes and listen to heartbeats. No matter the illness or procedure, Dr. Young gave his diagnosis in two languages: adult and child.
Fifty years ago, my grandmother and I were in a head-on collision with a drunk driver. Before the days of seat belts, I was standing on the seat next to her, my arm around her neck. At impact she was ejected through the windshield but not before throwing me to the floorboard. The El Camino accordioned. No one realized anyone else was in the car. It wasn't until hours later, when the family gathered at the hospital, did a search begin. How much of that time I was conscious is up for debate. (As an adult, I can become catatonic from claustrophobia.) There was a black wet nose - the watch dog at the tow yard - and then Dr. Young was smiling down, assuring me, 'you're gonna be just fine, kiddo". And I knew I would be because he had said so. 

Early one morning a couple of years ago, I was strapped down on a stainless steel gurney in a small, icy surgical suite, about to undergo out-patient surgery.  (My primary care physician, to whom I've stubbornly clung for the last 10 years, operating under the idiotic belief that we had some kind of rapport, wasn't there.) Instead, I found myself surrounded by a small group masked strangers who, as they went about preparing me for whatever it was they were going to do, loudly complained that they weren't paid enough for the amount of hours this particular hospital required of them. Sitting with his feet propped up on a nearby desk, the specialist in charge was loudly leading the complaint litany, remarking rather snidely to his team that "four more of these things" stood between him and golf at noon. Mounting anxiety prompted me to ask (again) legitimate questions as to exactly what this procedure entailed and why it was necessary. Judging by their very heavy accents, English, was not the primary language spoken by anyone in the room, but I knew they'd heard me. This was, pure and simply, an assembly line, and I was just a "thing" - trusting my life to a person more concerned about his tee time than my welfare. 

I tried to recall Dr. Young's face. How different medical care had become.

Granted, my disease is rare with no textbook treatment or cure. I get that. Stuff happens. BUT the 'stuff' I'm dealing with now isn't from the disease. It's from several different 'specialists', each with their own treatment idea and no clue as to what the others were doing to me. I think its a three-fold problem: 

a.) there is no centralized patient information, 
b.) they've got too many patients to follow and 
c.) they just don't care. 

I quit going because it was doing more harm than good. Are medical school graduates even still required to take the Hippocratic Oath?

 "I will prescribe regimens for the good of my patients according to my ability and my judgment and never do harm to anyone."

My generation was taught to trust and respect doctors, teachers, policemen, the clergy, neighbors and friends. To trust in God, our country, a handshake and Walter Cronkite. That a single voice can make a difference. Bottom line, the fault in all of this is all mine, really; mine for falling back on the mentality of the age in which I was raised and refusing to acknowledge the end of the innocence; spoiled by the milk of human kindness and soured at its lack.

Can one voice even still be heard?

Sunday, December 29, 2013

Bugsy and the Ball...

The tippy-top item on every letter Bugsy wrote to Santa this year (three that we know about) listed: Furby Boom.

I had a Furby eons ago - I think it annoyed me until I regifted to my niece, Miranda. So I know what a Furby is. I also knew that Bugs wanted the black and white zebra one and, as it appeared, so did about 75% of the Furby buying public. The only way to acquire said fuzz ball was Amazon, of which I am an unofficial, undocumented, major shareholder - or should be. My Amazon account dates back to the days of... Well, let's just say pre-Furby uno.

Supply and demand. I knew I could snag the rotund zebra ball in time to pack the sleigh but would it cost me an arm and a leg above its uglier, less desirable siblings? It could have but I have age, patience and a quick iPad finger. She sees! She shops! She scores! Now all I needed was Santa and Christmas morning. Oh, and a camera to capture rapturous expression on the Bugmeister's face.

About a week before Christmas, LL Bean sends a catalogue. I don't do LL Bean but they know that and evidently my business is so vital to their bottom line that they include a '$10 off any purchase and FREE guaranteed Christmas delivery shipping'. Okay, so I'm a sucker for free shipping. The problem was I don't need sub-zero apparel here in the North American Sahara. Wait a minute! What's this?!? OMG!! It was right there on page 3: an ice cream ball! Bugsy has bounced me bonkers over that ball since last spring, badgering and begging until I felt like a bruised banana. All because of the four little words parents dread most: "As Seen On TV". No way was I gonna shell out two easy payments of $19.95 plus $9.95 shipping and handling. But here it was on page 3 for only $19.95 - minus my $10 off coupon AND free s&h. Wellll, my fat little fiingers couldn't type fast enough!

The later you get to sleep on Christmas morning is a pretty accurate guage of your kid's age. This year we didn't get the wake up scream until 7:45. Sniff. Seems like only yeaterday it was in the 5am range. Sigh.

And I still forgot the darn camera.

Anyway, Furby was a hit for about 10 minutes or until she unwrapped The Ball. Now would be a good time to explain that The Ball looks like two halves of a geodesic dome. Hollow but for a pint sized metal cup embedded in one end, into which goes a pint of 1\2 & 1\2, 1\3 cup of sugar and a capful of vanilla extract. (She has yet to experiment with any of the other 999 recipes in print so small it requires a miroscope to decipher.) You screw the lid on, flip it over, pour ice and rock salt into the hole on that side, screw that lid on and start rolling The Ball.

When I was a kid, homemade ice cream required kid power of a different sort and my arms still ache from the memories. The Ball, by comparison, is a piece of ice cream cake. I suggested getting the dogs to roll it around but Spike is too old for such frivolity and Maxi can't even see over the darn thing. Bugsy measured, poured, assembled, sat on the floor and rolled it to Art's feet, positioneded at the base of his recliner, and he'd roll it back. Fifteen minutes later...voila! Ice cream. Bugsy was over the moon. Art complained it was hard work. I proclaimed it 'good enough to eat'.

I haven't seen Furby since Christmas.

 


Thursday, December 19, 2013

'Twas the Before Christmas - Southern Style

'Twas the night before Christmas would trash up the house. Who's gonna be Santa? Me or the spouse?

Our kidlet was playing possum you see -hoping to glimpse the Big Guy (and not me!)

When out by the pool there arose such a splash, (it turns out the reindeer had been at the mash)

With a camera and towel I rushed right outside. 'Swim, Santa, swim', my Forrest-self cried

No way was the old guy gonna croak on my watch, cuz that would sure turn down the cheer a huge notch!

Now it took a good while to de-drench the old elf. Thank goodness I had a spare suit on the shelf

Shaking and shivering and weak in the knee, he tripped on a gift and knocked down our tree!

I said not a word, (my southern roots run deep) not a sigh, not a frown, not one single peep.

Gathering himself, all red in the face, he thanked me profusely and dashed from our place

Too late I realized I'd gotten no proof! Who'd ever believe such a Santa sized goof?

And who'd clean up the mess that he'd left behind? A merry maid at midnight would be hard to find...

I consoled myself with an 'Oh,what the heck' - how often does Santa drip on your deck?!?

Then we heard him exclaim as he rose over the wall 'Giddy up, Rudolph and Merry Christmas, y'all'.